Perfect Parenting – Family Dispute Resolution
Is there such as thing as a perfect parent? Perhaps not, and in any case, if there was, it could reasonably be assumed that this perfect parent made all the mistakes we all make, and learned the best way to parent thereafter.
Solving a family dispute is a good way to show, just how perfect of a parent, someone is.
Cardinal Law of Parenting
Again, safely assuming that most parents make a great deal of errors before they learn the best way forward in parenting, the cardinal law of parenting must be stated.
It usually saves the family from breaking up, and certainly gives the children a firm basis for their own lives.
The cardinal law of parenting is that the parents love each other. If they do that, the children will be all right. This is an age old proven observation, crossing civilizations and time itself.
The Family Dispute
There is no way to characterize all the different kinds of family disputes. The answer lies in the word used to describe keeping the kids in order, which is ‘discipline’. This word comes from the root word ‘disciple’ and as it can be expected, the parents expect the kids to be like them…their disciples.
Family disputes are often centered on the parent’s rules and the children’s desires that contradict those rules. There are other reasons for family disputes, certainly, but more often than not, the root cause will lie in rules and breaking the rules.
Resolution of Family Dispute
The parent, if properly informed and sensitive to the needs and psychological make up of the children (and the spouse), can achieve the following with a small bit of effort:
• Dispute analysis
• Psychological state of each family member
• Stress levels affecting each family member
• Degree of outside (the family) influence (i.e. peer pressure)
• Goals (or lack of ) from each family member
Armed with the above information, the parent attempting to resolve a family dispute can act to:
• De-heat tempers
• Soothe damaged egos
• De-stress and relax a stressed and pressured family member
• Offer some workable and compromistic solutions
In fact, there is not much more a parent can do, except to have been and be a good example and role model for the children to follow and the spouse to admire and respect.
Let the Cardinal Law of parenting also work in your behalf, and the children may, with your sensitivity and limitless understanding, agree with you to resolve instead of dissolve.
The parent must lead the way, perfect or not. If for some reason, the parent is the cause of the dispute, then the parent must also, quickly become the solution.
MORE FREE INFO
On all aspects of family life and more on and parenting visit our website for a huge resource of articles, features and downloads and at http://www.net-planet.org/index.html
Nice Guys Vs. Good Men
We know that "Nice Guys" tend to end up in the dreaded "Just Be Friends Zone". But that doesn't stop women everywhere from claiming that's what they really want in a man. So what's the deal here?
As often seems to be the case, the true answer is a disarmingly simple one. "Nice" behavior by a man in and of itself is not what differentiates "keepers" from the "rejects" in the minds of women. To the contrary, it's all about HOW the man presents himself.
Make no mistake, it's not necessarily the I/Js (Idiot/Jerks) who get women-ESPECIALLY the highest echelon of women. Being "good" or "bad" in and of itself is NOT the key, despite what you may have heard elsewhere. In fact, being a "bad boy" is at best a quick-fix for getting some women�any women who'll take him, as long as she's "hot".
Whether they are "good" or "bad", it is my informed and therefore strong opinion that guys rarely if ever get tossed into the "friendship" pile if they have succeeded in any way, shape or form at creating ATTRACTION. Sure, there's the rare instance when a truly sharp woman recognizes that a guy is flat-out no good for her despite her overpowering desire for him, but let's face it-that wasn't a GOOD MAN she was dealing with anyway. And you know by now that we LOVE truly sharp women around here.
So here it is: The difference between a genuinely good man who ATTRACTS women and one who ultimately does not is centered around from what position he is coming from in performing his "good guy" behavior. Men who act "nice" from a position of WEAKNESS end up rejected. Men who are in a position of STRENGTH, yet who treat women well often make women so crazy for them that they have more options than they can handle.
As always, I'm happy to break it down for you. Here are some key differentiators between "nice guys" who finish first and those who�well�don't.
THE NICE GUY WHO FINISHES LAST (Having Come From A Position Of Weakness)�
1) �Capitulate To Women's Whims. "Yes Dear." "Whatever you want, honey". Men only say this to avoid conflict (at best) or (at worst) because they pathetically think that their efforts will somehow impress a woman. Women smell insincerity a mile away. Sorry.
2) �Is Afraid To Lose The Woman He Is With. Therefore, they literally bend over backwards not to "upset" her or say the wrong thing. Despite the obvious desperation involved here, arguably the most unattractive aspect of all this to a woman is how BORING it is.
3) �Has Zero Leadership Ability. Guys often hear that "if Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy". So the thought process is geared toward letting them make decisions and letting them get what they want. Unfortunately, women have a level of respect for a man that correlates to his level of leadership in a relationship. Zero leadership equals zero respect�which, logically, equals zero second dates.
4) �Lacks Confidence. If you are worried she won't like you she probably won't. And similarly, if you act "nice" because you haven't the courage to stand up for yourself, she'll likely walk all over you�disgusted by every second of it.
5) �Has Thinly-Veiled Ulterior Motives. Nobody likes to be "brown nosed" or "buttered up". There is no more blatant display of viewing a woman as a purely sexual object than to go overboard being "nice". She knows, you know and the rest of the world knows you wouldn't be so "nice" if she wasn't so sexy. Consider how weak this appears to a woman. End of story.
Meanwhile,
THE GOOD MAN WHO WINS (Having Come From A Position Of Strength)�
1) �Treats ALL WOMEN Well, Regardless Of Sexual Attractiveness. Guys, take this test for yourself: Do you open doors for ALL women, or only for the ones who look good. If the latter, don't be so shocked that your dates slot you in the JBF zone so much. Your "nice" behavior is all about manipulating women into giving you what you need. Start appreciating women more genuinely, and you will begin to be more genuinely appreciated. Is this really so difficult to get?
2) �Is Not Focused On "Getting Some". Sex-starved men stay hungry. Men without pressing sexual needs cause women to feel more comfortable in their presence. Ironically, women who are comfortable around a man are more attracted�and ultimately more sexual. So the pattern operates.
3) �Takes Charge. Such a man does not sheepishly ask a woman her preference and thereby let her dictate the flow of a date. A Good Man has paid attention and learned what makes the woman tick. When the date comes, he has the plan completely handled. At the end of the evening, the woman is often flabbergasted at how "perfect" her evening full of surprises was. But the Good Man with leadership ability knows it was all no accident.
4) �Has Options. Therefore, he succeeds in causing the woman he is with feel to particularly valuable and special. She views herself as the "winner", and rightly so. Other women want this guy, but she is with him. That feeling is a good one to have. If a man can inspire a woman to feel valuable OR special he's on the right track, but getting both right is an unbeatable combination. By the way, contrast this scenario with the weak man's cavalcade of compliments and/or gifts designed to help him somehow manipulate a woman's attraction.
5) �Has High Standards. This means the man is EVALUATING the woman he is with rather than attempting to impress her. He has complete control over his dating life, and as a good man is confident enough in his character to realize that women worth his time and effort will recognize that and be impressed without his having to press the issue.
Once again, men have been brainwashed in this culture into believing that all male behavior is bad behavior. Yet, women continue to seek out real men. The tragedy is that most men have either given up on being good men entirely and gone to the I/J "dark side", or they wallow around in an asexual virtual mudpit of being too "nice". Either way, the casualty is that magically gallant true masculinity that women STARVE for.
Come on, guys�get it figured out and go get the amazing woman you deserve. Ladies, keep the candle burning. We're busy around here building the population of real men for you. Will you be ready when you finally meet one?
------
Scot McKay's dating strategies for those who refuse to settle for anything less than the ULTIMATE relationship are found at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/. Stop by right now and grab a FREE e-book ($20 value) when you sign up for the X & Y Communications Newsletter, which is always packed with unique and practical dating tips.
Chance Affiliate Marketing Set to Spread the Love
The Internet is currently the number one sex resource for a huge number of people. Whether we’re talking about adult content, sex tips, dating and relationship advice or any one of the thousand issues related to “love”, the Internet has come to mean “discreet and reliable”, the twin qualities that every person in need of answers is looking for.
LoveCentria™ is an excellent opportunity to take advantage of this breathtakingly huge market. Every month, millions of users use search engines to locate advice and tips on how to improve their sex and love lives, but truly good resources are few and far between. This is why we think that a website filled with high-quality and extensively researched content can make a difference.
Just look at some of the exclusive content that LoveCentria™ will offer to eager surfers: 75 fully animated 3D sex positions for all the people who want to learn new ways of making love (more than 700,000 searches on “sex positions” per month in the USA alone), video series covering a wide range of topics, The Perfect Home Massage, the interactive erogenous zone body map and the exclusive Advice Line.
The best way to look at LoveCentria™ is to see it as a massive pool of professional content that can be easily linked to all our products. Whether we’re talking about PenisHealth™, SizeGenetics™ or Proactol™, there are thousands of ways in which LoveCentria™ can help up sell any of these products because they are intimately tied to relationship and sex.
Dating and sex is also a very broad topic. The exclusive content on LoveCentria™ can be easily linked to by review sites, article-based sites that love content and blogs and Myspace pages that touch even remotely one of the many topics discussed on LoveCentria™. It sits well with both adult-traffic surfers, mainstream traffic and PPC promoters searching for cheap, but highly popular keywords.
LoveCentria™ is ready to promote exclusively by MoreNiche™ affiliate program. Famous for cornering profitable, wide open market opportunities exceptionally high payouts, the MoreNiche™ team have provided a whole host of pre-built templates to bring the sales rolling in form this niche. To lean more, you can visit their program at www.moreniche.com.
Solving a family dispute is a good way to show, just how perfect of a parent, someone is.
Cardinal Law of Parenting
Again, safely assuming that most parents make a great deal of errors before they learn the best way forward in parenting, the cardinal law of parenting must be stated.
It usually saves the family from breaking up, and certainly gives the children a firm basis for their own lives.
The cardinal law of parenting is that the parents love each other. If they do that, the children will be all right. This is an age old proven observation, crossing civilizations and time itself.
The Family Dispute
There is no way to characterize all the different kinds of family disputes. The answer lies in the word used to describe keeping the kids in order, which is ‘discipline’. This word comes from the root word ‘disciple’ and as it can be expected, the parents expect the kids to be like them…their disciples.
Family disputes are often centered on the parent’s rules and the children’s desires that contradict those rules. There are other reasons for family disputes, certainly, but more often than not, the root cause will lie in rules and breaking the rules.
Resolution of Family Dispute
The parent, if properly informed and sensitive to the needs and psychological make up of the children (and the spouse), can achieve the following with a small bit of effort:
• Dispute analysis
• Psychological state of each family member
• Stress levels affecting each family member
• Degree of outside (the family) influence (i.e. peer pressure)
• Goals (or lack of ) from each family member
Armed with the above information, the parent attempting to resolve a family dispute can act to:
• De-heat tempers
• Soothe damaged egos
• De-stress and relax a stressed and pressured family member
• Offer some workable and compromistic solutions
In fact, there is not much more a parent can do, except to have been and be a good example and role model for the children to follow and the spouse to admire and respect.
Let the Cardinal Law of parenting also work in your behalf, and the children may, with your sensitivity and limitless understanding, agree with you to resolve instead of dissolve.
The parent must lead the way, perfect or not. If for some reason, the parent is the cause of the dispute, then the parent must also, quickly become the solution.
MORE FREE INFO
On all aspects of family life and more on and parenting visit our website for a huge resource of articles, features and downloads and at http://www.net-planet.org/index.html
Nice Guys Vs. Good Men
We know that "Nice Guys" tend to end up in the dreaded "Just Be Friends Zone". But that doesn't stop women everywhere from claiming that's what they really want in a man. So what's the deal here?
As often seems to be the case, the true answer is a disarmingly simple one. "Nice" behavior by a man in and of itself is not what differentiates "keepers" from the "rejects" in the minds of women. To the contrary, it's all about HOW the man presents himself.
Make no mistake, it's not necessarily the I/Js (Idiot/Jerks) who get women-ESPECIALLY the highest echelon of women. Being "good" or "bad" in and of itself is NOT the key, despite what you may have heard elsewhere. In fact, being a "bad boy" is at best a quick-fix for getting some women�any women who'll take him, as long as she's "hot".
Whether they are "good" or "bad", it is my informed and therefore strong opinion that guys rarely if ever get tossed into the "friendship" pile if they have succeeded in any way, shape or form at creating ATTRACTION. Sure, there's the rare instance when a truly sharp woman recognizes that a guy is flat-out no good for her despite her overpowering desire for him, but let's face it-that wasn't a GOOD MAN she was dealing with anyway. And you know by now that we LOVE truly sharp women around here.
So here it is: The difference between a genuinely good man who ATTRACTS women and one who ultimately does not is centered around from what position he is coming from in performing his "good guy" behavior. Men who act "nice" from a position of WEAKNESS end up rejected. Men who are in a position of STRENGTH, yet who treat women well often make women so crazy for them that they have more options than they can handle.
As always, I'm happy to break it down for you. Here are some key differentiators between "nice guys" who finish first and those who�well�don't.
THE NICE GUY WHO FINISHES LAST (Having Come From A Position Of Weakness)�
1) �Capitulate To Women's Whims. "Yes Dear." "Whatever you want, honey". Men only say this to avoid conflict (at best) or (at worst) because they pathetically think that their efforts will somehow impress a woman. Women smell insincerity a mile away. Sorry.
2) �Is Afraid To Lose The Woman He Is With. Therefore, they literally bend over backwards not to "upset" her or say the wrong thing. Despite the obvious desperation involved here, arguably the most unattractive aspect of all this to a woman is how BORING it is.
3) �Has Zero Leadership Ability. Guys often hear that "if Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy". So the thought process is geared toward letting them make decisions and letting them get what they want. Unfortunately, women have a level of respect for a man that correlates to his level of leadership in a relationship. Zero leadership equals zero respect�which, logically, equals zero second dates.
4) �Lacks Confidence. If you are worried she won't like you she probably won't. And similarly, if you act "nice" because you haven't the courage to stand up for yourself, she'll likely walk all over you�disgusted by every second of it.
5) �Has Thinly-Veiled Ulterior Motives. Nobody likes to be "brown nosed" or "buttered up". There is no more blatant display of viewing a woman as a purely sexual object than to go overboard being "nice". She knows, you know and the rest of the world knows you wouldn't be so "nice" if she wasn't so sexy. Consider how weak this appears to a woman. End of story.
Meanwhile,
THE GOOD MAN WHO WINS (Having Come From A Position Of Strength)�
1) �Treats ALL WOMEN Well, Regardless Of Sexual Attractiveness. Guys, take this test for yourself: Do you open doors for ALL women, or only for the ones who look good. If the latter, don't be so shocked that your dates slot you in the JBF zone so much. Your "nice" behavior is all about manipulating women into giving you what you need. Start appreciating women more genuinely, and you will begin to be more genuinely appreciated. Is this really so difficult to get?
2) �Is Not Focused On "Getting Some". Sex-starved men stay hungry. Men without pressing sexual needs cause women to feel more comfortable in their presence. Ironically, women who are comfortable around a man are more attracted�and ultimately more sexual. So the pattern operates.
3) �Takes Charge. Such a man does not sheepishly ask a woman her preference and thereby let her dictate the flow of a date. A Good Man has paid attention and learned what makes the woman tick. When the date comes, he has the plan completely handled. At the end of the evening, the woman is often flabbergasted at how "perfect" her evening full of surprises was. But the Good Man with leadership ability knows it was all no accident.
4) �Has Options. Therefore, he succeeds in causing the woman he is with feel to particularly valuable and special. She views herself as the "winner", and rightly so. Other women want this guy, but she is with him. That feeling is a good one to have. If a man can inspire a woman to feel valuable OR special he's on the right track, but getting both right is an unbeatable combination. By the way, contrast this scenario with the weak man's cavalcade of compliments and/or gifts designed to help him somehow manipulate a woman's attraction.
5) �Has High Standards. This means the man is EVALUATING the woman he is with rather than attempting to impress her. He has complete control over his dating life, and as a good man is confident enough in his character to realize that women worth his time and effort will recognize that and be impressed without his having to press the issue.
Once again, men have been brainwashed in this culture into believing that all male behavior is bad behavior. Yet, women continue to seek out real men. The tragedy is that most men have either given up on being good men entirely and gone to the I/J "dark side", or they wallow around in an asexual virtual mudpit of being too "nice". Either way, the casualty is that magically gallant true masculinity that women STARVE for.
Come on, guys�get it figured out and go get the amazing woman you deserve. Ladies, keep the candle burning. We're busy around here building the population of real men for you. Will you be ready when you finally meet one?
------
Scot McKay's dating strategies for those who refuse to settle for anything less than the ULTIMATE relationship are found at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/. Stop by right now and grab a FREE e-book ($20 value) when you sign up for the X & Y Communications Newsletter, which is always packed with unique and practical dating tips.
Chance Affiliate Marketing Set to Spread the Love
The Internet is currently the number one sex resource for a huge number of people. Whether we’re talking about adult content, sex tips, dating and relationship advice or any one of the thousand issues related to “love”, the Internet has come to mean “discreet and reliable”, the twin qualities that every person in need of answers is looking for.
LoveCentria™ is an excellent opportunity to take advantage of this breathtakingly huge market. Every month, millions of users use search engines to locate advice and tips on how to improve their sex and love lives, but truly good resources are few and far between. This is why we think that a website filled with high-quality and extensively researched content can make a difference.
Just look at some of the exclusive content that LoveCentria™ will offer to eager surfers: 75 fully animated 3D sex positions for all the people who want to learn new ways of making love (more than 700,000 searches on “sex positions” per month in the USA alone), video series covering a wide range of topics, The Perfect Home Massage, the interactive erogenous zone body map and the exclusive Advice Line.
The best way to look at LoveCentria™ is to see it as a massive pool of professional content that can be easily linked to all our products. Whether we’re talking about PenisHealth™, SizeGenetics™ or Proactol™, there are thousands of ways in which LoveCentria™ can help up sell any of these products because they are intimately tied to relationship and sex.
Dating and sex is also a very broad topic. The exclusive content on LoveCentria™ can be easily linked to by review sites, article-based sites that love content and blogs and Myspace pages that touch even remotely one of the many topics discussed on LoveCentria™. It sits well with both adult-traffic surfers, mainstream traffic and PPC promoters searching for cheap, but highly popular keywords.
LoveCentria™ is ready to promote exclusively by MoreNiche™ affiliate program. Famous for cornering profitable, wide open market opportunities exceptionally high payouts, the MoreNiche™ team have provided a whole host of pre-built templates to bring the sales rolling in form this niche. To lean more, you can visit their program at www.moreniche.com.
